Does anyone else have a problem with baby mama drama?

I have tried everything in my power to be nice to this girl (22 years old but you cant tell). I have been with my husband for over two years and she has been nothing but a problem since day one. When we started dating she was eight months preganant and of course they weren%26#039;t together. She did not know who the father of her child was adn she called occasionally just to tell him how her appointments went, but after she had her daughter she lost her mind. paternaty was never established because she looks a lot like him so he just didn%26#039;t question it, which i kind of understand. we both fell in love with this little girl...i was the one who drove two hours to get him from schol just so he could be there for her birth, and went to the hospital everyday bringing her flowers and the baby toys and things. After about two weeks sthe statred calling asking why they couldnt be a family and telling me they were having sex which i knew wasnt true because everytime he went to see her

Does anyone else have a problem with baby mama drama?
I was in the same situation as you. Make sure he get paternity..the rest of it, according to the COURTS its none of your business. UNLESS you witnessed something that was harmful to the child. Just be there to support your man...custody is a hard fight for men. When i was in that situation i really feel that when i was brought into it that caused the court to deny him custody. Tread carefully. If you have to document all the things she has said or did to you...that way if brought up in court you have a record (don%26#039;t go off memory alone). For now...kill her with kindness. If she starts in on you..just hand the phone to your man. Let him deal with it.





I know its hard to stand by and watch. But you are there by his side and that%26#039;s the most important right now..
Reply:Looks aren%26#039;t everything get the paternity test NOW! If it is indeed his I would take note of everything she does and says to you/him to make his custody case the strongest it can be! Good luck!
Reply:As soon as I could I would find out if it is really his child, if it is then you have to realize you will have to deal with this for as long as you are with him, even if he gets custody she still has a right to see her daughter, so prepare yourself for this for the rest of your time together with him.
Reply:Heyy! Doctor Angel Here:


I%26#039;d save the baby now (get custody and FAST!) before this crazy lady does something beyond Michael Jackson!








Haha...Good luck! Court!


GBU (God Bless U) ~Dr. Angel ;)
Reply:You have a HUGE problem because it will get worse and will happen faster than you may think. Be the ones on the offensive get a lawyer a good one. File for paternity immediately! Next keep records of all money and gifts and visits. DO NOT BE ALONE with either the child or the child%26#039;s mother! If she is mentally unstable you have to prove it. It is hard and even then doesn%26#039;t guarantee a change of custody. You will need people to testify against her that know her. You will need any legitimate criminal background on her you can get. Drugs or assaults are best.


Custody is tricky. It all boils down to the Judge. A good Lawyer will get the judge that has a track record of giving custody to males. As a general rule the woman gets it. You have an advantage the two of you are married and can probably support the child better than she can.





Your biggest problem is the Birth Certificate he should have put his name on it. Until Paternity can be established you will get know where. Remember GOOD lawyer and strong offense. If she files first or puts you on the legal defense you are screwed. Good Luck It is hard but if you pray do that too. I will pray for y%26#039;all as well.
Reply:Establish paternity.


Go through the courts and establish visitation/custody rights.


Keep everything as civil, simple and documented as possible.





Let your husband deal with her and tell her why you are doing the above. He has his rights and responsibilities too.



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